don’t @ me for being a super Libra but Iyanla said “I don’t get to tell people how to love me. I get to view how people love me and then choose whether or not I want to participate” and that’s the biggest truth of my own life that I’ve ever heard verbalized.
desirability is such a distraction and as long as we are consistently invested in our own identity solely through the lens of desirability we will literally never progress ….the self objectification has to end at some point. like the denial of how much i truly have to offer outside of my own perceived desirability (which fluctuates anyway) is so disrespectful to myself tbh..i am so much more than this. we all are. i feel like the world is dead set on not ever cracking through the surface of things
